You can go many ways with this. I helped so many of my friends just this week when they end up with a personal issue. Usually they keep it to themselves because the feeling of burdening a person with their issues always pop into their mind, but eventually they'll speak up. How though, is the question? See what i like to do is express how much i care, but not to much where they would get annoyed, just enough where they know they can rely on me when they need to. I sometimes even show them that i care by going out of my way in buying them something nice its usually food because i have it my head that food is the best comfort for those who is troubled. This depends on you, you don't have to do this. I also give a lot of kind advices if i knew what the deal was about and usually its relationship problems so that seems exceptional since i am a advice giver. After Awhile, maybe asking whats wrong after a reasonable amount of time that may be best fit is suitable since thats what you want to know, but if they still don't tell you try not taking to heart its usually depends on how much they trust you or how critical the problem is. Sometimes its best to ask someone you know they are close too to talk to them. Just helping them even though you aren't the one to talk to them is as important as it is being the one the one talk about it. I find the best thing you could do is show the amount of care you have for them by how you deal with the situation. Its about them feeling better right? Good Luck!
Tuesday, June 10, 2014
post #5 Helping those you care about
Having trouble helping someone you truly care about, but they wont tell you whats wrong? I'm pretty good with these things; its about how you deal with the issue that helps you out in the end. Friends, partners, family whoever is what you you're focused on. how can you help them?
You can go many ways with this. I helped so many of my friends just this week when they end up with a personal issue. Usually they keep it to themselves because the feeling of burdening a person with their issues always pop into their mind, but eventually they'll speak up. How though, is the question? See what i like to do is express how much i care, but not to much where they would get annoyed, just enough where they know they can rely on me when they need to. I sometimes even show them that i care by going out of my way in buying them something nice its usually food because i have it my head that food is the best comfort for those who is troubled. This depends on you, you don't have to do this. I also give a lot of kind advices if i knew what the deal was about and usually its relationship problems so that seems exceptional since i am a advice giver. After Awhile, maybe asking whats wrong after a reasonable amount of time that may be best fit is suitable since thats what you want to know, but if they still don't tell you try not taking to heart its usually depends on how much they trust you or how critical the problem is. Sometimes its best to ask someone you know they are close too to talk to them. Just helping them even though you aren't the one to talk to them is as important as it is being the one the one talk about it. I find the best thing you could do is show the amount of care you have for them by how you deal with the situation. Its about them feeling better right? Good Luck!
You can go many ways with this. I helped so many of my friends just this week when they end up with a personal issue. Usually they keep it to themselves because the feeling of burdening a person with their issues always pop into their mind, but eventually they'll speak up. How though, is the question? See what i like to do is express how much i care, but not to much where they would get annoyed, just enough where they know they can rely on me when they need to. I sometimes even show them that i care by going out of my way in buying them something nice its usually food because i have it my head that food is the best comfort for those who is troubled. This depends on you, you don't have to do this. I also give a lot of kind advices if i knew what the deal was about and usually its relationship problems so that seems exceptional since i am a advice giver. After Awhile, maybe asking whats wrong after a reasonable amount of time that may be best fit is suitable since thats what you want to know, but if they still don't tell you try not taking to heart its usually depends on how much they trust you or how critical the problem is. Sometimes its best to ask someone you know they are close too to talk to them. Just helping them even though you aren't the one to talk to them is as important as it is being the one the one talk about it. I find the best thing you could do is show the amount of care you have for them by how you deal with the situation. Its about them feeling better right? Good Luck!
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